BALI,
INDONESIA
10th December 2022

RAFAEL WIDJAJAHAKIM
ALICIA KOSASIH

TREASURED MEMORIES

BOSTON, MA, USA
8TH APRIL 2023

Thank You for Sharing Our Special Day

BALI, INDONESIA

December 10th, 2022

Where we said 'I DO!'

BOSTON, MA, USA

April 8th, 2023

Where we continued the celebration

#aliciaforaffer

2011

With a main goal of getting free food, Alicia went to an Indonesian students’ BBQ Party at Boston, MA as a rising Sophomore. She met Rafael for thefirst time, but didn’t really leave any impression on her.

2012

Raf & Alicia started chatting with each other over text messages, and quickly realized both have the same affinity towards good food & drinks around the city. It slowly evolved into weekly hangouts, many spent at Boston University’s Main Campus as both prepared for their own exams & assignments.

2013

Being best friends at this point, Alicia was a week away from leaving Boston for Jakarta. Realizing how both enjoyed each other’s presence, Raf officially asked Alicia to be a couple.

2014

Alicia returned to Boston for her Graduate program. After months of long distance relationship, now the adventure begins!

2015-2019

Raf & Alicia had many adventures across the States together - from Northern parts of Maine to cobblestones of Washington D.C, and from the skyline of Chicago to lush lands of California, creating memories at a time.

2020

Weeks before a Pandemic Christmas, Raf popped the question to Alicia at the comfort of his apartment, as both were getting ready for a weekday dinner.

2022

Raf + Alicia are tying the knot in Bali!

Alicia Kosasih

ThE BRIDE

Interior designer, ice cream fanatic, amateur urban sketcher, and Raf’s favorite confidante!

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Born & raised in the hustle & bustle of Jakarta, Indonesia, Alicia grew up in a loving family of entrepreneurs who always encourages her to excel in studies while allowing room to explore things that bring her joy. She began exercising her creative hands at her house from the tender age of 3, as shown by walls full of paintings made of Mom's make up, semi-distressed curtains and textbooks full of sketches.

Driven by her innate curiosity for numerous fields of interest, Alicia spent her teenage years balancing both worlds as a Science Olympiad and amateur midnight sketcher. She embarked on a journey to Boston, United States as a Biochemistry major at Boston University, only to realize that her affinity towards Design is what she wants to pursue as a career. This was also the time when she met her partner for life, Rafael, as he was a Graduate student at Boston University School of Medicine. They spent a lot of late night exam weeks together, and enjoyed each other’s company despite completely unrelated fields of studies. His methodical approach to life accompanied by always kind demeanor finally caught Alicia's heart, in contrary to her more artistic, big idea spirit. (Not to forget his arsenal of corny jokes.) After graduating with a Bachelor's Degree in Business Operations, Alicia decided to begin a new adventure in design, and later graduated top of the Class with Masters in Interior Architecture from New England School of Art & Design.

Today, Alicia is an Interior Designer in Boston, where she dedicates her professional career working on some of Northeast America’s largest & ground-breaking Residential and Mixed-use developments. While finding Midcentury Modern gems always kicks Alicia into high gear, there’s nothing more she loves to spend her free time than sketching, baking, and tinkering with LEGO Bricks - but most of all to cook, eat & travel with Raf.

Rafael Widjajahakim

THE GROOM

That pharma data guy, self-proclaimed tea connoisseur, tinkerer, and Alicia’s sidekick for life!

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Born into a family of doctors, Rafael spent the majority of his childhood in the island of Sumatera, Indonesia in addition to growing up in central Java for several years. Studious by nature, Raf boasts that his favorite book growing up was a set of Encyclopedias that his grandfather gifted to him. He lives and breathes Science to the full extent, so much that he's willing to forgo his childhood dream as a General Contractor and pursue Science for college.

Raf embarked his journey to the United States as an ESL student at Boston, only to find himself later landing as a Biology major at Suffolk University and finishing the program with Dean’s Honor. Having developed interest in Medical Science, Raf continued his studies in Clinical Investigation at Boston University’s Graduate School of Medicine - a period of his life when he met ‘a girl in red BU hoodie’ at an Indonesian Students’ Welcoming Party. Bonded with interests in good food, drinks and many things Japanese, and intrigued with Alicia’s different background, he knew from the first time they met that things were going to be special on his friendship with Alicia. It is also her unique breadth of knowledge, relentless nature, and ultimately genuine heart that sealed the deal for Raf! (Not to mention the quirks - it's a whole package deal.)

He later graduated from the program with a Master of Science degree in Clinical Investigation and began his professional career in Medical Research field. Today, Rafael is a Healthcare Research Data Analyst at global data, insights & innovation firm Clarivate, where he gains intelligence on emerging pharmaceutical trends & drug development particularly within the Rare & Infectious Disease sector. Despite his highly technical job, Raf spends most of his pastime tinkering with gadgets, polishing his photography skills, and most of all cooking & trying out new places to eat with Alicia.

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Dear friends and family, your presence and well wishes are the greatest gift to us! Should you wish to honor us with a gift, a contribution for our future travel & home improvement funds will be sincerely appreciated.

In addition to gifts, we are inviting you to make donations to organizations that are near & dear to our hearts.